Fight Less.
Love More.

Relationship Counselor to live your best life. 

We help individuals and couples restore their relationships so they can enjoy life again.

You are successful in your career, but your relationship is struggling.

You may be arguing more days than you are getting along. Maybe you have many years of resentment built up and held inside.You have distanced yourself so much that you feel like you are nothing more than roomates. Is there any hope?

Relationship Counseling can help. 

Hi, I'm Lia Huynh.

I’m a Relationship Therapist. I have helped hundreds of individuals and couples communicate better, repair past hurts, and build better ways to love one another. I have almost two decades of experience in this field. I am also a speaker, a professor, and a pastor’s wife. Relationships are my passion. I have done this enough times to know what works and what doesn’t. I would be honored to help you and guide you to a healthier, happier relationship.

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Hi, I’m David Huynh

I am a marriage and relationship coach. Fixing marriages and relationships is my mission in life. For over 20 years, I have helped couples communicate better, build trust, and grow deeper. People describe my style as practical, humorous, and heart warming. I couple sound advice with a good experience, especially for those who have never sought help before, or are fearful about starting. 


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Experts you can trust

experience and expertise

Not every practitioner specializes in couples. It takes a very specific skill set to counsel two high-conflict people in the room, and to do it well. If a therapist/marriage coach does not know what they are doing, they can do more harm than good. We see many couples who have had failed attempts at therapy from other therapists who find success with us. We practice EFT (Emotion Focused Therapy) which has a sucess rate of 75% and is the gold standard for couples therapy.

Concrete steps for faster results

We go beyond nodding our heads and sending you home. We dive deep into your relationship and give you concrete steps for change. We are proactive and work hard to repair trust and give you tools that you can use for years to come. The average amount of sessions clients need is about 8-20 which is considered quick for couples work.

We work around your schedule

We offer weekend and evening appointments so no taking off work or switching your schedule. We offer convenient online scheduling, so instead of calling or emailing back and forth, you can spend time on the things that matter.

Counseling Services

Marriage Therapy

A therapist who understands Asian culture. Culturally-informed therapy for Asian, Pacific Islander & South Asian Couples. Counseling for interracial couples.

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Therapy based on your values as a Christian. Counseling based on Biblical foundation.

Couples Trust Building Therapy

Therapy for individuals in a relationship needing to work on personal issues. Also for those who are single and wanting to move forward in dating, family or  friendships. 

Client Reviews

I began seeing Lia recently and already I can see clear growth in my life as a result. Every time I step into her office, I feel safe and welcome. She is an amazing individual therapist as well as an amazing marriage therapist, as my husband also began joining my sessions. If you are going through any major life transitions while trying to heal from recent trauma/pain/baggage, it's definitely not easy. Lia has helped me move forward step by step, while helping me heal from the past at the same time. She understands the big picture and it's obvious she has years of experience counseling people. I definitely highly recommend her!
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My husband and I come from very traditional Asian families and Lia helped us navigate the pressures of being young Asian Americans in hardline Asian households. It was important for us to find a therapist that understood the struggle of being Asian Americans. Going to Lia, you're meeting a warm and caring therapist. I was excited to go to therapy every time and left leaving empowered to apply what I learned. Lia helped me come out of my shell and discovered a stronger identity. With Lia as my guide, I was able to dispel the inner voice, that told me my voice or feelings didn't matter. With Lia, you will be in good hands no matter your background. She will inspire you and empower you.
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Marriage Therapy Client
David guided my then-fiancé and I through one of the lowest points in our relationship. He listened to both sides and shed light on what we were struggling with; we then continued to meet with him throughout the rest of our engagement. David helped us clarify the issue(s) that my now-husband and I continue to work on together to this day. I would highly recommend him to anyone seeking relationship counseling.
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Start in 3 easy steps:

Step 1: Schedule conveniently online

Step 2: Show up to your counseling appointment

Step 3: Start on your journey to a better relationship

Ready to get your relationship back on track?

Schedule easily online and get started right away. Still not sure? Contact me to schedule a consultation to see if we'd be a good fit. 

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